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4 Dec 2008 @ 3:01 PM
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Mom and Child Both ADD

My daughter, who is 7, was diagnosed with ADD back in March. After that, I sought out a psychologist who specializes in adult ADD and ADHD. I was diagnosed with ADD, bipolar tendancies and slight OCD. I have been on Concerta now since the end of April. I am on 54mg and taking a 10mg boost of ritalin in the late afternoon to get thru the night. It seems as though I am always tired and have no interest in getting the housework done. Working is a struggle and I only do it for 6 hours 4 days a week and 4 1/2 hours the other day. I also have another daughter, 5, who has a very spirited, difficult personality. We have been going to a therapist for her the last couple of months. Most days I feel like I am going to go out of my mind. Work is boring, (I am a bookkeeper) the house is a mess, I don't want to clean or cook. I am also on antidepressants. I just don't know how I am supposed to keep up the house, cook, help with homework, spend time with my husband when all I want to do is sit and watch tv or go to sleep!!!! Is there any other moms out there that feel this way? Or am I just starting to go crazy?

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5 Dec 2008 @ 11:59 AM Reply # 1
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Not Crazy!

Hi Mom:

You're not crazy at all! You're doing the best you can and dealing with a very full plate right now. It's normal to feel frustrated and even depressed or unmotivated when you're busy each and every day with two high-needs children, plus your own medical problems on top of that.

Are you able to work exercise" into your daily routine at all? I find that, as difficult as it is to get motivated for a jog some days, I always feel more motivated and with a clearer head afterward. The same goes for local:/adhd/article/859.html:"diet. It's easier to eat a frozen pizza, but I'm more likely to get off the couch after dinner if I eat something healthier instead.

Anyway, here are a few articles about ADD Moms that I would recommend for you...

13 Survival Strategies for ADD Moms

4 Life Tips for ADHD Moms

Get Organized: Best Resources for ADD Moms

Survival Strategies for SuperMom

I hope this helps!

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5 Dec 2008 @ 4:12 PM Reply # 2
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Thanks!

I plan on reading these while I let my kids watch a movie tonight. After an ADD/ADHD meeting that I went to last night put on by the state, I was even more depressed. They just kep saying how much the ADD/ADHD child needs routine and structure but I kept thinking "How am I supposed to give her that when I have a very hard time doing it for myself?" I know I am strong enough to do this but sometimes I just want to run away!

Have a good day!

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