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Thanks for responding to both post Elaine! Here's a summary....
My Daughter was diagnosed a few years ago with ADHD the drs has tried,strattera, dexedrine, concerta which made her very emotional to the point she would cry if you said anything to her... even a simple "do you have homework"? but it helped her focus in school and her hand writing went from looking like a toddlers scribble to that of a regular 3rd grader. Helped with her behavior as well. I only gave it to her on Monday through Friday to help her concentrate & stay on task in school so she didn't take in on the weekends.
Due to loss of insurance she wasn't able to take if for almost 6 months. When I changed insurance companies waited out the probation period, I immediately took her back to her Dr they put her back on concerta at the minimal dose & it made her very aggressive even in school. For the first time she stood up to a bully, and the teacher was impressed but didn't understand why she behaved this way. So, I called the DR back and they put her on Vyvanse 30mg her grades have soared her to the top of her class (10/11 grade) with averages 97 - 99% btw the best grades she has ever had. This is where I get confused and not so sure she was diagnosed properly. If she does in deed have adhd the meds would do what they are doing, keeping her focused in school so she can complete work on task. But her behavior has gotten to the point she scares me & I'm scared I'm going to lose her! She has become very defiant, aggressive, paranoid & obsessive in conjunction with the inattentive & impulsive hyperactivity. How can this be if her grades have excelled as they have? She has decided that she is not coming home from school on her 17th birthday and that she is leaving home. Apparently a 17 yr can leave home and theres nothing a parent can do about it. I know she is not mentally capable of being out in the world with no structure especially since she has no self control or self-discipline. Of course she don't know that I know of her plans since I found this info on her myspace.
My mother is no Dr however she says my daughter has the symptoms of being bi polar. I have read so much information online that sounds like her... to the point I'm confused because she has some of the symptoms of everything I have read... including bi polar, adhd, odd, asperger & illnesses that I've never heard of!
Now, back to her DR... I take her to a pediatric & adolescent treatment facility. They are supposed to specialize in add/adhd & psychiatric therapy. Her Dr that knew her better than anyone moved out of state & was replaced with a very young dr that I'm just not comfortable with. I know with the patient confidentiality she is not allowed to tell me anything my daughter says when I'm not in the exam room with her, I don't like that! I ask her about specific behavior patterns such as her being so obesessive, aggressive & defiant. She tells me thats just the behavior of a teenage girl and suggested family counseling which I agree we need counseling just to cope. My mother also says Im a poster child for heart attack....but remember she's not a phd. LOL
Ok I know I said this was a summary that barely touches the surface so I will stop there LOL I apologize, I guess I just needed to vent.... If you have questions about anything that needs more specific detailing let me know... Again thank you for reading & responding!
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