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26 Sep 2008 @ 6:10 AM
ProzacKat Join Date: Fri 26th Sep 2008
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Helping Kids Understand

So I am an ADD mom, and my kids are not (so far). I need to find a way to explain to my 9 year old what is wrong with me. I can't do all the fundraiser PTA volunteer stuff at school. Heck, I can't even go have lunch with them at school. She knows the usual excuses: mommy works at night and sleeps while you're at school. But I would like to find a way to help her understand my mild social anxiety in those situations, and that it's harder for me than other ppl. I don't want to get into any complicated explanation of my mental condition. That will just make her think something is wrong with me. Just a light way to touch on the topic. I don't want her to think it's because i dont care. This really isnt a problem, and i dont think it bothers her. she knows my life if upside down because of my schedule, and accepts my quirks. but i would like to say something. any suggestions?

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26 Sep 2008 @ 11:14 AM Reply # 1
Anni Join Date: Thu 25th Oct 2007
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An Honest Explanation

Hi Kat:

Thanks for posting. You raise a good question about explaining mom's ADHD to a child. I do think honesty is the best policy and you might be surprised to find that your daughter knows all about ADHD because one or more of her classmates has it. Regardless, no need to get technical and detailed with her - just a simple, truthful statement of the facts will probably make everyone feel better. Something like "Mom has something called ADHD. It's a medical condition, but it doesn't hurt and it's nothing for you to worry about. ADHD just means that my brain in wired a little differently than everyone else's - this means I can be more creative and fun, but it also means that I sometimes have trouble concentrating, focusing and feeling comfortable in big crowds."

Here's a good article that ADDitude wrote about explaining ADHD to a child who's just been diagnosed - a little different, but I think the explanation still helps...

Explaining the ADHD Diagnosis to Your Child

Also, here are some helpful articles about moms with ADHD.

Best of luck!

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