I have a sister- in-law who sounds so much like you right now. I am not judging you;but want you to be aware if you are ranting like this at the office or literally asking them questions such as "who side you are on" they are looking at you as very unstable and no matter what you do will never help the situation. My sister-in-law lost her children due to her errratic behavior; I didn't realize how unstable she became. Her ex was able to fly into NJ from Fla and take the kids; the court allowed it apparently she ranted and asked questions such as the one I opposed and they deemed her unfit. Believe me when I say her husnd who is her ex's wasn't a prince or even a good guy; but the courts looked at him as the more psychological stable and gave him the children who are now living with their oldest sister. Sadly my sister-in-law is now homeless; and heard looks like death will happen sometime this summer. The reason I tell you this because I want you to stop the ranting and try to calmly discuss this with your lawyer. You say you messed up ; and I haven't any idea how. It doesn't look great that you gave custody to someone else so it may be the way the courts look at it and how you messed up. They may be cautious and are not sure this is a thing of the past. Jr is a convict and unfortunately this is what the world see;'s when they look at his file. My best friend who I love is also a convict so I don't hold this against Jr. I know people change. However if drugs were not he only thing that is in his file then it is so much more difficult to convince them that things are different. If You needs to I again would advise you to say prayers ; and to write in a journal.Blessed Be!!!!!!!! (Judi)

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LadyRaines526928 said: I dont' know what to do, I'm so pissed off and hurt with all the hell and torement that Leslie has caused. I don't know how to handle this any more, How can she do something so crewl and inhumaine- What did I ever do to her for her to do what she had done to me. God know's I'm far from perfect and I'll fully admit that I have done some messed things and I have made some major mystakes but no matter how much I might not like the decisions a person makes- I would never do what leslie has done. I would never go to DSS and make a false claims accusing some one of abusing a child let alone molesting a child with out having documented evadence to back up my claim. Now because of Leslie my back is against the wall , DSS is now pretty much treating my case like every case they have, treating me like i'm all of the abusive parents they have had to deal with - that right there is wrong. DSS is wrong for the way they have treated Jeremy , it's wrong how they have treated me but the worst thing is, that my poor William gets hurt in the all of this . I really feel that the best thing for Me, william and Jeremy , is that I try to find a family lawyer who will help me with an open adoption , I need some one who will help me find a family who will be willing to do an open adoption - my case worker has told me to stay away from open adoption but fact of the matter he's not acting like he's too interested in working with me , because he doesn't like Jeremy and I don't feel that, that is right. I'm starting to think that all of these state people are full of nothing but a bunch of bull shit- all they care about is getting paid, their not trying to help any one but themselves. The fact that my case has been passed through 7 different social worker's @ DSS tells me that none of them have taken the time to get to know me as a person nor have they taken the time to get to know Jeremy as a person . Truth of the matter is DSS is too stupid to see through to Leslie's bull shit , their not even bothering to take the time to understand where I am comming from, their not taking the time to understand where Jeremy is comming from , all of the info their going on is what was written in the CPS report and Jeremy past back ground along with all the lies that leslie has told on Jeremy and myself. This bitch has brain washed my son, there for my son wants nothing to do with me, he has no memory of me and yet i'm considered to be an unfit parent because I'm with jeremy - DSS consider's Jeremy to be unfit to be arround William because of his past criminal history / past drug history - boy if I haven't heard of such bull shit in all my life. I don't have very many people, because to hate some one , well that's a very strong emotion to have towards some one but I hate leslie with ever fiber in my body , I know it's wrong but I truly hate her, I hate for her what she has done to me, to Jeremy and especially to William . Because of that crazy bitch , my son is now in therphy - and DSS wonder's why he has mental health issues, well gee I wonder why, because of Leslie and her fucked up life style that she has led. If there is any unfit parent in the whole case it's Leslie. I pray to god that, god deals with Leslie in the way he see's fit , because it's not up to me to judge her it' s up to him to judge her and she will be judged one day .

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