Well, since DSS has closed the investigation on Jeremy as far a child abuse as well as child molestation. Now my son's Temp Guardian is being investigated for child neglect, abuse. I was served with court papers on the 3rd of this month to appear in family court regarding the custody of my son since I am the biological mother and since my son's Temp Guardian and I have court papers from FL stating that I appointed her Temp Guardian due to an unhealthy situation I was in at the time. Now my son has been taken out of home of his Legal Guardian and has been placed in a kinship placement with her 1st ex-husband and his wife who live about an hour from Jeremy and I - according to DSS my son's Temp Guardian no longer wants him in her home, she has stated that my son is violent and that she can no longer handle him any more. DSS has since interviewed my son and has seen no evidence that my son is violent. I have been asking for an emergency visitation with my son and that has been denied by my case worker because they feel that it would better for my William to start therapy and let the therapist sign off of weather I can have visitation with my son, apparently, according to the DSS report, my son's Temp Guardian said that she fears if my son returns to my home that he might die, not to mention the fact that, according to DSS, my son wants nothing to do with me or Jeremy, which I refuse to believe until I hear this out of my son's mouth. I've explained to DSS that I tried to revoke the Temp Guardianship in FL and that when I call FL they told me that since I am a resident of NC that I would have to get a lawyer here and have a motion filed in the clerk of FL and then have the case transferred up here to NC. Apparently my son's Temp Guardian got wind of this and so she sent her partner/girlfriend up here in January with my son, which I didn't know about. She then called me and ask me to send her money so she could drive my son back up here to NC , after that i didn't hear from here again in until march , when her partner/ girlfriend called me and left a message on my mom's machine stating that she had my son with her. I explained to DSS that I didn't know that my son was back in state of NC until march of this yr. Evidently, my son's Temp Guardian knew that if she left the state of FL and came up here to NC that I would have a hard time revoking the guardianship - she says she no longer wants my son in her home but doesn't want me to have him back either , because she states that Jeremy is mentally unstable and she's afraid of what he might do to William which a load of crap. DSS evidently believes her, they are now making Jeremy and I take evaluations, mental health, as well relationship counseling which Jeremy and I have no problem in taking but in the meantime nothing has gone in our favor - I still have not seen my son or had any contact with him which is driving me crazy and I have told DSS that my son not having contact with me is not good for him mentally or emotionally - I have told DSS that my son's Temp Guardian cut all communication off between my son and I a yr ago, yet according to the report that I have not had contact with my son since 2004 which is not true. I don't understand how DSS can take her side of all of this and believe her when filed a false report stating that Jeremy threw my son through a wall when he was 2 1/2 - 3 yr old in 2004, when Jeremy and I were not together during that time, how can they believe her when she files this report May 1st 2008, can't they see that she is just making all of this up - everything in the report is false and incorrect - yet DSS feels that 48 hours is enough time to make the decision to put my son in kinship placement with her 1st ex husband and his wife. Now I admit that I messed up by allowing my son to stay in Leslie's custody for as along as he did, I admit I messed up by not revoking the Temp guardianship sooner, but what DSS doesn't see is that I've chased my son for 40 something months, 2 yrs into my son' being in FL with his Temp Guardian, every time I would get a new phone number for her and I would call, it would be disconnect or the number had changed, every time I would send money to the address I was given I would a get a return to sender back in a week - so how can they say that I haven't had any contact with my son when Leslie has been the one who has moved from here to there, changing addresses and phone number so fast that I don't know where she is let a lone where he is. Now I did go to family court on Tuesday. NC hasn't made a decision weather they are going to take the case permanently or weather they are going to turn it over to FL since the Temp Guardianship papers were drawn up in FL - I'm really hoping and praying that NC is going to take the case permanently because I really don't feel like making that long 9 hour drive to FL just for court. I do have a court appointed family lawyer which I hope and pray he's my miracle because I really don't have the funds to get my own family lawyer. To say the least all of this has been very tough on Jeremy and I considering the fact that we already have enough challenges in front of us, as we are working right now to clean out my mom's house so that she can sell the house and move out to the other side of town to an apartment complex which is made for people who are disabled. Truth be told I know that God has a reason for everything, I know that he has a reason for these kinds of storms, I'm also fully aware that the devil is looking for Jeremy and I to mess up, he's wanting to rip our family apart that's why Jeremy and I have to stand more on god and trust that god is going to take care of us and that god is not going to give Jeremy and I more than what we can handle .

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