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Thread : Comorbids and Shadow Syndromes  
9 Jun 2008 @ 12:09 AM
kelly b Join Date: Sun 8th Jun 2008
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Comorbids and Shadow Syndromes

Help needed ASAP!

OK... I go through many struggles with organization and I either hyperfocus or I am scattered and, of course, I hyperfocus on what I like, such as computers etc. My whole life is in disarray. My self esteem is really low. I feel like an impostor. I was wondering if there is a treatment facility, that deals with ADD and other disorders. I feel alone here and misunderstood. I need to be on my own. I had a break down a year ago, back at mom's at 44. I need a good job, money, and A GREAT boyfriend. The last one left me. I'm sure to my disorganization. We were supposed to live together and after almost 2 months, he called it off. So, I'm lonely. I need help with career decisions, time management, organization, higher self -esteem, confidence. I need to be around positive people that I like, and who like me, in a caring, creative, fun, safe, environment. I feel stuck in a rut. I'm torn. Making decisions is a problem for me. Fear. So, I need resources and Help. Some kind of treatment center to help and achieve my dreams before life passes me by!!! I have a mild/severe form of ADD. Inattentive type and depression/confusion/anxiety/shame/guilt/remorse, etc. I feel like I'm spinning my wheels. Going NOWHERE! I need a nice city to live in, and a nice, affordable apartment.

Please please. This is serious.. I'm from Northern Ontario Canada. I need Serious HELP!!! I'm either too bored or to creative. I need to get a positive LIFE. I NEED HELP ASAP!! Who/where can I get help to feel understood!! Thanks Everyone!! Kelly

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9 Jun 2008 @ 11:46 AM Reply # 1
Anni Join Date: Thu 25th Oct 2007
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Comorbid Help

Hi kellyb:

Welcome to the ADDitude forums - I hope we can help you find the help you need! I don't know of any ADHD treatment centers, per se, but there is tons of help out there for some of the comorbid conditions you mentioned: depression, anxiety, etc. You can find treatment centers like Bayridge (http://www.bayridgetreatmentcenter.com/) in Ontario, and your local hospital may offer services as well.

Are you seeing an ADHD specialist? If not, I would recommend finding a doctor who understanding the disorder and all of its comorbid complications, and who can prescribe medication accordingly. Are you taking any ADD medication now?

Also, what about hiring an ADD coach? (http://www.additudemag.com/adhd/article/3619.html) With a little guidance and support from a professional, you may start to feel more in control of your own destiny...

I would also suggest a support group where you can meet other adults with ADD and share your fears, frustrations and victories in a kind, understanding environment. Check out this article to learn more and to find out how you can find support groups in your area: http://www.additudemag.com/adhd/article/1629.html

And here are some additional resources that might help...

Adult ADD Help: http://www.additudemag.com/adhd/article/815.html

Finding Focus: http://www.additudemag.com/adhd/article/883.html

Help for Couples Dealing with ADD: http://www.additudemag.com/adhd-web/article/597.html

Help in Social Situations: http://www.additudemag.com/adhd/article/831.html

Depression in ADD Adults: http://www.additudemag.com/adhd/article/748.html

I hope these help! Please let us know what happens...

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9 Jun 2008 @ 2:10 PM Reply # 2
agreen3angels Join Date: Mon 2nd Jun 2008
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Hang in there

I just read your message and wanted to let you know that I can relate. I'm new to this site and felt such relief at just finding others who have similar struggles as I do.

I just recently went to the dr. to get evaluated, but she referred me to a psychiatrist because she suspects that in addition to the ADD issues, that I also have a mild form of bi-polar and depression.

I haven't been able to get into a dr. yet, but am hoping that the additional help will help me in my lack of focus and lack of self-esteem.

Like I said, I'm new here, but just finding this site has helped give me hope again.

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10 Jun 2008 @ 5:29 PM Reply # 3
ADD RN Join Date: Wed 21st Nov 2007
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I just found a book that may interest you.

It is called the Healing ADD The Breakthrough Program that Allows You to SEE and heal the 6 types of ADD . I just began to read it and it seems to be right on the money.THE author is Daniel G. Amen It does seem to be a very honest about what he discovered as a father of several ADD children and a psychiatrist . i DECIDED TO READ IT BECAUSE IT DISCUSS THE 6 TYPES AND OFFER REAL LIFE STRAGIES, DIET ETC PROGRAMS.

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10 Jun 2008 @ 5:29 PM Reply # 4
ADD RN Join Date: Wed 21st Nov 2007
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I just found a book that may interest you.

It is called the Healing ADD The Breakthrough Program that Allows You to SEE and heal the 6 types of ADD . I just began to read it and it seems to be right on the money.THE author is Daniel G. Amen It does seem to be a very honest about what he discovered as a father of several ADD children and a psychiatrist . i DECIDED TO READ IT BECAUSE IT DISCUSS THE 6 TYPES AND OFFER REAL LIFE STRAGIES, DIET ETC PROGRAMS.

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18 Jun 2008 @ 12:12 AM Reply # 5
kelsey Join Date: Tue 26th Feb 2008
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I will talk t osomeone about a referral t oone of those healing places.. and I need special help.. I know i'm different// God Bless You ALl, thank You for your support, and ideas.. Kelly

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