Hi Michelle - Although my son is recently diagnosed we have known for a couple years that positive reinforcement has always worked better for him. We tried taking things away but then he started showing signs of not caring OR pure frustration that leads to major tantrums. So, at the beginning of each week we would set a goal with a reward earned on Friday (usually an outing). In talking with other parents I learned that they started off with earning a reward each successful day then working up to a week. I also taped positive reminders to his desk (if your son is older than maybe put a reminder in is notebook). After a while he learned to want the feeling of being successful. We also promised him that the thing he treasured most (snow skiing) would never be taken away or used as a threat. We believed that we established more trust that way - we promised more of what he loves if he always tries his hardest and does his best. Our son still has him moments but by establishing this deal we've seen huge improvements. I am also a firm believer in Fish Oil as a supplement. Give it a try. Kris

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Hi Michelle and Kris,

Having lived with ADD for 47 years, I know all too well the pain and frustration that people with this challenge face on a daily basis.

Because people with ADD/ADHD frequently face alienation by others who don't understand them, low self esteem, and depression are common. Family and loved ones can greatly help those with LD challenges, by offering sincere praise. Please understand, that criticism and punishment only compound the feelings of isolation and pain, and cause loved ones to turn inward. Looking for reasons to offer sincere praise, helps us to develop a sense of self that is positive, which in turn can assist your loved ones to feel good about themselves, and to flourish. The world becomes less scary, and enables us to be at peace with ourselves. Gary

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Kris, you said try fish oil. Could you tell me a little bit about it. Why do you use it, how has it helped. Thanks.

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