There are many days where I wish that Jr & I were the normal adverage couple, fact is being a woman W/ ADD whose in a relationship with a man who is ADHD / OCD it can be really frustrating at times. There are many times I wish that we had the normal obsticals that non ADD/ADHD couples have, thruth of the matter is a normal relationship and all the challanges that comes with that quote on quote normal relationship looks to be easier than being an adult woman with ADD who is inlove with her partner of 8 yrs who just happends to be ADHD himself. I'll be admit it there are times when i wish Jr was your normal typical 28 yr old man , but then I remember all of the guys i've dated who were quote on quote normal adverage guys, and I remember that they never really accepted me for me, they never really loved me for me, they were never able to financually supoort me like Jr does, even tho he him self draws a disability check but helps his older brother who owns a paving business, he helps him during the summer time , being the fact that he's the biggest and tallest man there is out of the entrie crew , yes he might get cash under the table but the fact is every little bit of money helps, so i have to give him credit , he is the type of man who will do what ever he needs to take care of his family. To say the least all the other quote on quote normal guys i dated in the past , they never were really ever motivated to get a job, work do something to contribute , not to menton alot of the quote on quote normal guys i dated tended to not able to really handle my ADD, once they figured me out and not really understanding my ADD, every single quote on quote normal guy i dated pulled away, or they would cheat on me. To say the least Jr has never ever cheated on me, now he have a struggling addiction w/ crack/ cocaine about 4 ys ago but since then he has been clean and sober. Fact of the matter when i look @ Jr , seeing where we started at and how far we've come since we started dating in 2001 to now where we are right now, all the storms in which we battled . Yeah i'm not going to lie , Jr's OCD does get so intense that i get to my breaking point where I want to just start over, but when i really think about starting over with some else, some one new, when i try to imagine it , i can't . Fact is I could never imagine starting over with some one else, I could never see myself with anyone else other than Jr. I can't see myself having some one else child other than his ( which is what we are in the process of at this time) . I could never start over with trustng some new , I couldn't imagine makinlove with some one new because deep down in my soul, Jr is my soul mate, even tho he's ADHD and OCD, I guess you can say it's true hard love.

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