Well, i think you are a good friend. I could see those symptoms a mile away. I am pretty sure he may have ADHD and some other speech or learning disability. You should just say to your friend, (if you are on that level) that you knew of another person who had a child similiar, and they were able to get some help from the school district. Of course, you need to say a lot of positive things first. Like," alex is so silly and fun.He is a pretty busy boy isn't he? Does he ever wear you out? I know this one woman who has a little boy so similiar,but he had some speech issues too. They heard that the district would help with that , so they did a full evaluation on him. They found some attention issues too,and even a speech delay, fine motor delay. But, the best part is he is getting so much intervention even before kindergarten. Isn't that great? If you ever need to look into anything, remember it'll only help and prepare him for the future" OK, you get it. The problem is many daycare and preschool teachers are basically unable to give this kind of diagnosis. Parents are so quick to be defensive, so the care takers have to be very careful when wording anything like that. I am sure once he gets to BIG school, the teacher will notice it and gently let your friend know. But for now, you may have to wait, or say something like I said. Good luck to you and her!!

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