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What does ADHD anxiety look like?
I'm wondering if my almost 11yo son has within 'normal' range worries or whether he qualifies as having an anxiety problem... What's your experience/thoughts?
- He doesn't like to be upstairs in his room if no one else is up there (I recently started insisting and he lies awake fearful for quite awhile), usually falling asleep eventually.
- He doesn't like new situations if I'm not there (summer camp, out to a movie with an adult friend, etc. - but he's fine going to a new friend's house, etc.)
- Can't stand 'performing' (karate demos, small music recitals, team sports, plays, etc.)
- He perseverates on something he's concerned about and asks about it one or more times everyday even though the answer has been provided 72 different ways before (when are we getting the new computer? are you sure it will be fast enough? how much more allowance do I have to contribute? etc.) It drives us nuts! It's like he needs constant reassurance that his needs will be met - or is it just his ADHD impulsivity that makes him blurt out his every thought?
My ex and I are visiting his prescribing pediatrician and I wanted to get a sense of this before I go. I have to tread very lightly with my concerns since my ex thinks I'm the cause of our son's difficulties. His latest quote: "I don't know why you want to consider changing meds to get longer coverage when what we should be doing is 'breaking the cycle of his dependency on meds"! (Need I say my ex is quite literally disabled by his level of ADHD and refuses to seek help! But I digress entirely... ;-)
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