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Inattentive AD(H)D
My suggestion right now is to get to any/all administrative personnel regarding your child and IEP for his inattentive behaviors. These are part of the symptoms, but teachers/administration does not like to work with them if they don't have to. Don't believe everything you are hearing from teacher. Believe papers, homework, your child. There are ways you can work around his inattentive behaviors: Resource Rooms, quiet areas for testing, longer time for homework, more one-on-one (whether a tutor, student tutor, learning center/resource room w/special ed. teacher).
Don't ever think or let your child think this is an excuse not to do the work. They just need a 'different' way of completing the tasks. I have struggled for years. My son goes to after school, resource room, and has my step-mom (a teacher) working w/him on weekends after trying for 10 years to get an IEP for him. (The school actually finally suggested it!!!). He is in Resource Room now and completing his homework. Only 4-5 kids, and he can ask any questions, his questions are answered and someone is showing him what to do. He actually gets it!! Gee, .....
My son has always known he is ADHD, with a strong accent on the H. It is who he is, not what he has or his disability. I refuse to let him label himself or anyone else label him. Getting an IEP and 'labeling' him for school is just going to help him as he goes thru to graduation and maybe to college/technical school in the future. It is the only way to get him the style/type of teaching and learning environment he is good at.
We are too busy worrying about our politicians sex lives rather than our children's education. I guess it is more profitable.
Stay strong and keep strong for yourself and your child.
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