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30 Jan 2008 @ 9:11 PM
Kris Join Date: Wed 30th Jan 2008
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Trading Wisdom - Top 5 helpers

I was diagnosed with ADD at the age of 13 in the 7th Grade. My Dr prescribed me a low does of Ritilan and suggested I was only mildly ADHD. School became much easier and my grades began to go from C's & D's to B's with the occasional A... depending if I liked the course enough. While my grades faired better, the drugs really began to affect my personality. I was already a somewhat shy kid, but social none the less. Taking rittilan had a serious impact on my behavior making me pretty anti social.

While in college, I did not take any meds. For this reason I thought I was cured. My grades where all A's & B's and I worked well with my class mates and teachers. Entering the work place proved to be an entirely different animal.

For the last 6 years I have worked my tail off to try and adjust to the corporate world. Each year gets better, but by in large it has been a hard struggle. I went on Adderal for about 7 months, and quickly went off. I became paranoid, completely anixous and for the most part unlikeable.. I got the point where I didn't even like myself. I geniunely wanted to preform my best at work, Adderall helped me speed through some task but it completely flanked overall priorities.

I made the decision to stop taking Adderal and to work things naturally. I would wake every morning between 5-6 am and work out for an hour 1/2 before work. This seemed to help some, but I still felt fairly unfocused through out the day.

About 4 months ago I was rushed to the hospital after suffering an anxiety attack. I passed out and knocked my head on concrete, requiring 12 staples to the back of my head. A week later I saw my family physician to have the staples removed. I explained to her that I had an anxiety attack and fainted from it. I also shared with her that I had been on Adderal and felt this may have contributed to the incident. She recommend I take Lexapro for my aniexty and see a therapist. I was pretty stand offish to the idea of taking meds again, but thought there may be something to gain sense it's not a stimulant.

I have been taking Lexapro for the past 3 months, I have to say its has really helped. Since I feel more relaxed, I can focus much easier and prioritize better than I had before. I feel comfortable around others and with some coffee am able to focus well enough.

So thats a little about me... That said i wanted to share a few things that have helped me while on the job. Here are my Top 5

1) Tell myself every morning I love my job - This is importatnt, I get bored pretty easily and will begin to get negative if I am not feeling good about something. Sounds weird... but its been helping.

2) Be quick to respond - Being ADD does allow ideas to shoot fast... I always have a TON of ideas :)

3) Make list - So obvious, and I hate making them... but they are very helpful.

4) Staying humble and eager to learn

5) Becoming very energetic about my work ( this is where telling myself I love my job helps).

I have learned I can only do what really interest me. The hard part is I have tons of interest, and I tend to cycle through them like a change of clothes. The more I remind myself how much I enjoy it is that I am doing, the more likely I am to stick with it and do well at my pursuits.

I would love to know some of things that are working for you in your careers. There is a lot to be inspired by from ADD'ers, please share some of your tips.

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31 Jan 2008 @ 1:03 PM Reply # 1
elizabethvsloan Join Date: Wed 30th Jan 2008
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Wisdom...

May seem like common sense... but sometimes it takes somebody else to point them out! I read the article about the 5 executives' LD/ADHD etc backgrounds and so many jump out at me!

1. recognize your strengths / passions and work doubly hard on those

2. recognize weaknesses and DON'T try to make them a strength!

-I managed to talk my company into hiring a personal (administrative) assistant to cover the overwhelming administrative duties while managing projects. The funny part was- I got the idea from a fellow support group member who made a comment about how some people just don't give up trying when they should delegate!

...I have more but I am at work and have to get back to it..! maybe I'll remember to get back and finish!!

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1 Feb 2008 @ 11:28 AM Reply # 2
harcouto Join Date: Thu 10th Jan 2008
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2. TIP

That was the best advice really - not trying to make your weakness a strength. That actually helped a lot in my marriage, now that I think of it. There are a few things we both know are things that I struggle a lot with and now that we BOTH recognize that I can let go of them. We either do them together or my husband does them. Works much better than the rollar coaster ride of me busting my butt to do it and then struggling with the "failure".

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