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I can understand where your son is coming from...
If I'm reading this right, he hates to read because he can't understand the material and stay focused. I wander if he's medicated and if so, is the medicine doing enough for him?
The only time in the past.... 10 years, at least (I don't know if I can vouge for what I did before then, as I'm only 21 now), that I have enjoyed reading was the one month I was on Focalin. Meaning, the only time my medication was working for me was the only time I could finish a chapter.
Failing something so often is very disheartening. I now judge medications on whether or not I can keep focus up long enough to read a chapter. But not physically being able to complete that task... I know how it feels. It wasn't necessarily a comprehension problem in my case, though. I just couldn't make myself connect the words on the page with any other thought. I still can't. I'm having to repeat classes because I can't make it through textbooks. I can't make it through anything else, either. That can have a HUGE effect on a person's self-esteem.
Now? If I don't absolutely HAVE to read something, I don't. Because I know that I'm just going to get upset because I can't follow it. It's a bad system to live by, but it results in fewer tearful phone calls to my mom late at night.
One thing that has worked for me is reading along in the book while it is being read aloud. I am a theatre major and do this with plays. I've done it with reading assignments, too. Sometimes, just hearing something isn't enough. The same goes with reading. That's why I make everything go through multiple "senses".
This may help, this may cause more despair than you started with. If the latter happens, I apologize profusely.
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