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What if all the meds we try bring out negative side-effects?
My son has Tourettes along with ADD. His doctor has also mentioned an anxiety disorder. I feel like this may simply be the result of our putting pressure on him because we keep trying to convince ourselves that he CAN do certain things if we stay on him. Because of recent events, I have come to feel that I have made things worse instead of better. So, here we are, back at square one.
We've tried LOTS of different meds in the past but they bring out tics or extreme irratibility and aggression. We gave up the possibility of meds a few years ago, but then this year of school (7th grade) has been horrible. I get emails from his teachers about how they cue him to task repeatedly and he will not start his work, finish his work, follow instructions. 'In a fog' or 'drugged' is what they say. 'Worse than we've ever seen him' was another comment. We tried a medication his dr. said had the same chemical make-up as the stimulants we'd tried before so that maybe it would help but without the side-effects. It did nothing.
We've tried every strategy to help him compensate that we can think of. We've gotten so frustrated that all we do is yell. He told me recently he's sad all the time because I am always mad at him. Our family is falling apart and I don't know what to do. We've been to dr's and counselors and haven't felt like we really got any practical suggestions. My biggest fear is that he will never learn to take care of himself.
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