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Glad to hear of your son's success
Hi Jana,
I'm glad to hear of your son's success utilizing neurofeedback. It must be such a relief to have found a modality that works so effectively in improving so many aspects of his academic life. I, too, have read, "The symphony of the Brain," by Jim Robbins. I didn't mean to "hold-back," information about myself or my background in my first posting but I have taken a 4-day workshop with John Demos. He teaches a 4-day workshop on "learning to utilize neurofeedback," and I thought I would be able to learn the techniques and apply them to my son. I am an RN. I have "heard," of ADDers who have, like your son, been able to almost transform their lives, using neurofeedback. I'm aware of the process but I was hoping I would connect with another Adders who had EXACTLY the same type of EEG mapping as my son and he/she could help my son understand what help it has been. I wasn't as clear with my first posting as I could have been.
My son doesn't want to utilize the neurofeedback computer program, bio-explorer, I have for him. Delayed gratification isn't a strong point with many ADDers. As I understand it, it can take up to 40 sessions with the bio-explorer program to have an effect on the "rewiring," of the brain and David only did two sessions and didn't see any change and said he didn't want to do it anymore. David is graduating from high school in two weeks and he has been accepted to a great school, here in Virginia. He underwent neuropsychological testing recently and as I stated in my previous posting he was diagnosed with mild/moderate ADD with no add-ons. David could ask for accommodations at his college but he "doesn't want to be labeled," as he calls it. David is an only child. Both his father and I have spent endless amount of time attempting to convince him that having accommodations at this very demanding college may be his best chance of him staying in school. He is so stubborn and we fear he won't ask for accommodation and will do poorly because his neurofeedback analysis states he heeds more time on tests as his EEG mapping shows he has "alpha," ALL over the brain. Not just primarily in the posterior region where it is predominate. When David starts to read material, Beta doesn't "kick-in," as it would with a normal brain. Alpha stays on and it takes longer for him to finish a test. The neuroanalysis also states David would benefit from audio books. It is so difficult for him to understand that he will have to obtain other coping skills to succeed in college. We so wish there was someone "out there in ADD land," who has the same type of ADD and could talk with David about "accommodations in college," and how it will help him in the long run. Especially someone his own age. The college he will attend informed me many ADD students do very well. Of course they also asked for "accommodations," as well. I'm in the process of asking the learning center at this college if another upperclassmen, who asked for "accommodations," could talk to my son, before college starts this August about the process and its benefits.
David is now 18 years old and "he," must be the one to march into the learning center at the college and ask for accommodations. We have to cut the "apron-strings," and let him suffer the consequences of his own actions now and it is so very difficult to do. Watching your child take "mis-steps," and wrong choices is agonizing,but necessary for the process of maturation to take place. We'd just like to "ease," the falls he takes. That is why I keep trying to find a way for other knowledgeable people to intervene in his life and guide him in a direction that will benefit him. Concerned, caring, loving parents never give up on their children.
Again, I thank you for your comments about neurofeedback and I wish your family well.
JLA
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