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No ADHD Med Vacation for Us

For some kids with ADHD, summer vacation brings a break from ADHD medications. Not at our house!
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Parenting ADHD Children blogger Kay Marner is mother to an ADHD daughter in Ames, Iowa

Today is the last day of school for my children. They gain their freedom this afternoon, and I lose mine! Sigh. No, it’s okay. I’m really looking forward to this summer--my first ever, as an adult and as a mom, that I won’t be working outside the home. I want to lavish attention on my kids, spend endless hours at the pool, be a cool mom during the hot days of summer.

For some kids with ADHD, summer vacation brings a break from ADHD medications. Not at our house! It’s clear that Natalie needs medication year-round. After all, taking medication helps Natalie with much more than just concentrating in school. My guess is that only a tiny minority of kids with ADHD--probably the “H”-less ones--can really thrive while taking a medication vacation.

I’ll never forget a conversation I had with our pediatrician when we first talked about starting Natalie on Ritalin. She said that when considering whether or not to treat a child’s ADHD with medication, parents should assess how the ADHD symptoms affect the child not just at school, but in all areas of life. Take social interactions, for example.

During the tough months of med adjustments we went through last fall and winter, Natalie’s classmates noticed that her behavior was different. She was up and out of her seat a lot. She impulsively grabbed their stuff. After things settled back down for Natalie, med-wise, her teacher commented that her relationships with peers improved also. Those relationships are huge to Natalie. She’s so sensitive to kids being “mean” and seeing her as “different”.

If you’re planning a summer getaway with your family, you’ll compare hotels for cost and amentities, won’t you? Or weigh staying in a hotel vs. camping; gas prices against the cost of flying.

In the same way, compare the cost and the benefits when considering whether or not to give your child with ADHD a summer medication vacation.

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6 Comments:

  • Posted by pjod1999 - Sep 8 2009 @ 1:07 PM
    no meds nightmare
    We just came back from a long weekend of camping with my 10 year old son MAX, 3 of his friends and other family members and friends. I decided to give my son a "vacation" from his medicine. Well our trip was a nightmare due to his ADHD symptoms. He was rude, impulsive, swearing not listening and unfocused. He was getting yelled at by everyone! It seemed everytime I turned around someone was yelling MAX stop this Max stop that. I will never bring him on a trip again without his meds.
  • Posted by girlsrulemom - Jun 22 2009 @ 9:48 PM
    No meds, no way
    As a second grade teacher I was aware of the benefits of meds in helping ADHD children with learning at school. But when my own 9 year old daughter was diagnosed, it was easier said than done. Medication has been so helpful for her at school, but I tried to give her breaks on weekends or summer. After a couple of days on vacation and listening to the sirens of her cousins’ voices and seeing her tears, I realized that the same calm clear thinking was required for decision making outside of the classroom. Now, if we get side tracked in the morning on weekends, she will remind us that she needs her medication.
  • Posted by bhsmum - Jun 16 2009 @ 1:59 PM
    No Medication Vacation in our house
    My son is 10 and taking him off his medication for the summer would not at all be a good idea. He will be going to summer day camp and will be interacting with his peers the entire summer. If he is not taking his medication his impulsiveness and difficulty keeping still, interrupting etc. etc. leads to teasing and other children labeling him as a pain and an outcast - NOT a fun summer for him!!! He is a kind hearted, gentle, fun loving boys boy, he loves to fish and play baseball, draw, work with his friend on the farm and he would be able to achieve none of this without his medication. While I agree there are some children who take lower doses who may be able to cope without it, there are some, like my son, whose summer would be far less fullfilling without it. This does not mean that I can't cope with him without it, or that I prefer him to be medicated, if I thought for one second he would seriously benefit from being off his meds for the summer, it would be done, without question, but unfortunately the "severity" of his ADHD does not allow for it to be an option.
  • Posted by n8uremom - Jun 16 2009 @ 12:24 PM
    medication vacation
    Yes a child has ADHD 24/7, however it may only manifest a problem in a certain specific environment, often the classroom. I have discussed this issue with my son's pediatrician and he is NOT in favor of medicating a child 24/7 unless his ADHD severely limits his life experiences in ALL environments. Like patientmommy726 I enjoy my son's ADHD personality and we manage it at home without medication. ADHD children are very creative and engaging - it is a shame to mask the good traits ALL the time.
  • Posted by patientmommy726 - Jun 16 2009 @ 11:20 AM
    No Meds on Summer Vacation
    I have an 11 year old son (almost 12) who takes only a small dosage of Adderal XR. He was diagnosed with ADD about three years ago. I take great pleasure with him being off the meds because he is a completely different child. Although he needs the meds for concentration, he loses his outgoing attitude. I would love not to have him on meds at all.
  • Posted by TerryMatlen - Jun 10 2009 @ 8:54 AM
    ADHD: 24/7
    I'm glad you address this! ADHD is with us or our kids 24/7 and many, if not most, need to continue their meds even when out of school in order to feel in control of themselves. Still, it's a decision parents should discuss with their child's doc. Terry Matlen, ACSW http://www.MomsWithADD.com
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