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The Juggling Act

Sometimes it feels like managing all of Natalie’s special services for her ADHD and learning disabilities is a full time job.
ADHD Parenting Blog | Thursday July 10th - 7:02am | More July 2008 Blogs
 
Parenting ADHD Children blogger Kay Marner is mother to an ADHD daughter in Ames, Iowa

Today, we started our morning at ChildServe, for Nat’s occupational therapy.

We arrived home just in time for an appointment with Nat’s case manager, who oversees the services Natalie receives through a children’s mental health waiver.

When she left, I called a therapist Nat saw in the past, to schedule a re-evaluation, to determine if Nat is eligible for another year on the children’s mental health waiver. I need to call Gayle to schedule times for the 3 or 4 different types of services her agency provides. I need to follow up with the school on all of the things that I asked for in Natalie’s IEP meeting, that didn’t show up on the completed IEP, before summer school starts in two weeks.

(By the way, at Natalie’s IEP meeting in the spring, I asked the school to be sure the summer school teacher knows that Natalie has an IEP, and to give her a copy of it. Last summer, the teacher wasn’t aware of it, and never saw it. I was told to just copy the accommodations page and give it to her myself. Does that sound a little lax to anyone else?!)

And, I need to develop written training materials for new care providers, to try and avoid exposing Natalie to another Exorcist. I’m afraid — and experience confirms this fear — that Natalie is at risk when she’s around adults who don’t understand her ADHD behavior!

Can anyone out there help me with this? A long time ago I ordered the babysitters' guide from the ADDitude website, but when someone called to get my credit card info, I wasn’t home, and returning that one little phone call fell into the category of one too many things to do.

I should order it again. But I’d also like to know if other parents have come up with their own written materials, or found other existing resources that help you to train other adults to take care of your kids with ADHD. Maybe having a couple of samples in front of me would make this project seem less overwhelming, and give me a jumpstart to actually start researching and writing.

If you’ll share with me, then if/when I ever come up with something (no promises!) I’ll share with you.

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2 Comments:

  • Posted by RS - Jul 10 2008 @ 2:05 PM
    babysitter guide
    I did develop a pretty cool babysitter guide if I say so myself. I'm not sure how to get it to you, but I'm happy to share. Another though you may want to tuck in the back of your mind, is to see if there is a treatment facility or special LD/ADD school in your area. I was able to hire one of the teachers from the residential treatment program last summer to babysit my two ADDers. Compared to what she deals with on a daily basis, my children were a piece of cake. Those staff have lots of training and knowledge in working with our kids. I agree that it was much easier than trying to haul everyone out the door early in the morning. The kids got to stay in their house and relax in the summer.
  • Posted by Kay Marner - Jul 10 2008 @ 12:25 PM
    ADDventures in Babysitting
    I didn't realize you can now order ADDitude booklets and pay online! I ordered ADDventures in Babysitting this morning via the link in my post above, using PayPal. Easy enough even for overwhelmed me! I'll give you my informal "review" after I receive it and read it. Kay
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