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The Fate of ADHD Projects

We ADD adults love projects because they're big, they make us feel like we're establishing a beachhead in the war against confusion; but then everything goes off the rails.
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Bill Mehlman blogs about treating adult ADHD for ADDitudeMag.com

If there's one thing we of the Deficit (ADD) love, it's projects.

(So ask, already, would you?)

Glad you asked. We love projects because they're big, they make us feel like we're establishing a real beachhead in the war against confusion, and because starting a New Project doesn't require any actual work. Or thought. And if we're lucky, it will give us a reason, however specious, for buying a new toy.

Just after reaching the point at which we've defined the nature of The New Project is the site where we tend to go off the rails. Turning the project into an actual step forward, creating a useful structure for improving our lives, that's not so much fun. It's work. It requires regular, concentrated effort. It poses the risk of failure. We'll hate the sight of the new notebook, underwater-writing pen, ergonomic paperclips, daylight-spectrum desk lamp or — dare I say it — USB flash drive that we just had to have to make the project work.

You need an overview, to be sure. But let's remember what we talked about last month: base your actions on recognizing, defining, starting and completing small, discrete tasks. At the end of a month, the little tasks, completed, will add up to a lot more than a grandiose Leviathan of a project.

And you won't have to explain to your wife what happened to that lovely desk lamp she bought you last year.

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4 Comments:

  • Posted by Astraea - Sep 18 2008 @ 1:42 PM
    So True
    I was recently diagnosed and now I'm concerned that dealing with my ADD has become my new big project. Especially as it will be an excuse to buy new toys. (A new planner! A light therapy clock! New software!)
  • Posted by VMSguy - Aug 24 2008 @ 9:46 AM
    This brought tears of laughter
    So true, the dark gift treats each of us differently. This one hit home.
  • Posted by Bill Mehlman - Aug 20 2008 @ 6:33 AM
    Now, now, calm down
    Gee, Charlie, I'm blushing. Thanks for the nice words. If you found my stuff helpful, that's really great. Sometimes it's an effort for me to look at my life, my situation, and evaluate what's going on, or, more frequently, what's not going on. If I can be of help to fellow distractees, it's a humbling and uplifting experience. Keep on pushin' Charlie.
  • Posted by C_Holloway@Juno.com - Aug 15 2008 @ 12:28 PM
    Thanks Bill
    Ouch!!! I don't know how much more truth I can stand! Bill, you understand me much better than I understand myself, and we have never met -- have we? I so appreciate your insight (or are you inciting). I have never had anything to add to what you say, but I want to express my appreciation for your candor and wisdom (and your clever way with words). Your sharing in your blog makes you one of the most generous persons that I know of. Thanks! Charlie Holloway
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