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Jane D., a 30-something professional writer and student with ADHD, blogs about dating and relationships, working and losing a variety of jobs, and surviving and thriving with attention deficit, along with depression and anxiety. She lives, works, and studies in a big city on the East Coast.« Recent Blog Posts
Archives: September 2012
posted: Monday September 24th - 10:13am
Picking up the Pattern
Back to work on the other continent, and back to my struggle to find lasting love. The old familiar question remains: Why don't others find me worthy?
Back in Hong Kong, the pattern starts again: the overpromising, the seeking, the whining, and the overthinking about my great date drought. It's been easy to slip back into this crazed pattern as I slip back into the city; this place is on speed anyway. The escalators are twice as fast, the people walk twice as fast, and as a friend observes, there is almost...
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posted: Wednesday September 5th - 9:48am« ADHD & the City's blog
Still Restless or Ready to Settle?
The words, "I want to settle down," seem as steady and consistent as a heartbeat. But how to get there has been a lifetime challenge and constant struggle.
The panic sets in now and the countdown begins again. I am counting down the days, literally three, two and then back onto the airplane. Back to the other continent. To another time zone, to another language, lifestyle, to dense humidity, mosh pits of people and noise. Back to work. I am really looking forward to this...not. I am internally kicking and screaming my way back this...
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