Worry Wart Remover: 8 Ways to Let It Go

Whether your worrying is the result of an anxiety disorder, ADD/ADHD, a phobia, PTSD, OCD, or paranoia, follow Dr. Ned Hallowell's coping strategies for excessive, obsessive, or constant worrying.

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Worrying can be a good thing.

It can motivate you to make changes or accomplish an important task. But if you find yourself tangled in a web of "what ifs" spun out of concerns, anxiety, and negative thinking, you could benefit from some advice on how to stop worrying.

Here is an eight-step plan that will help anyone who worries too much. You may not use every step, but every step should at least be considered in order to help reduce your anxieties.

  • Identify a pattern or diagnosis. Look at the forest instead of the trees. Is there a pattern to your worrying? For example, do you worry all the time, even when others tend not to do so? Do you often explode at others when you worry? If so, your worry might fit a specific diagnosis.
  • Educate yourself. If your worry leads to a specific diagnosis, such as generalized anxiety disorder, learn as much as you can about that condition.
  • Trump negatives with positives. Talk to yourself in a positive way. Most worriers talk to themselves in half-phrases of imagined doom. Telling yourself, “I know I can complete this project as soon as I sit down” is more effective than saying, “I never seem to be able to finish anything!” If you start thinking negatively, do something to distract yourself, such as whistling or singing.
  • Plan away your worry. As worry sweeps over you, take action rather than sitting on your hands.
  • Create a plan to address your worry by evaluating the situation and formulating a response. Since worry comes from feeling vulnerable and powerless, ask yourself how you can reverse the situation. For example, if you worry that you might not be able to find a job, sit down and write out a specific plan for doing so.
  • Connect with people and with Mother Nature. People with ADD/ADHD often feel isolated, and that can add to worry. Talk with or visit family and friends, volunteer with an organization, get out into nature -- connections that will make you feel a part of something larger than yourself.
  • Consider medications that help worrying. Medications for anxiety and worry can be effective. They are not a cure, but they can be potent tools in a treatment plan.
  • Consult a counselor. The key to using psychotherapy for worry is to choose the right kind of treatment. Cognitive-behavioral therapy works best for anxiety, while eye movement desensitization and reprocessing therapy is helpful for worry caused by trauma.

Next: Worrying Causes

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