Discuss the options carefully with your spouse. It can be a painful decision to send a child away, so make sure you're in total agreement.
Make sure your financial house is in order. Wilderness programs can run $3,000 per week; one year at a boarding school can cost as much as four years at college. Don't forget travel expenses.
Hire an educational consultant to help you find the program that best fits your child. Check references and ask other parents about their experiences with the programs or schools you're considering.
Talk to your school district. It's unlikely that the district will offer financial assistance - but there's no harm in trying. It also doesn't hurt to have an attorney.
Do not waver in your decision. Once your child has been placed in a program or school, he will plead with you to be allowed to come home. Don't do it.
